Marriage, sex, toys 2

 

Hi,

It's been a while since I posted here. I have been busy writing my latest romance novel Paradise, Thank goodness it's finally out in bookstores now.

In my last post, I introduced us to sexual aids that help in enhancing sex in marriages and by extension, strengthen marital unions. 

One of these sexual aids, which I wrote extensively about is sex toys, which according to Jenn Sinrich, amps sexual experience for married couples even more.

In this post, I am going to list some of the best toys for married couples, if you and your partner are considering purchasing one or two (or more) to enjoy in the bedroom and enhance your sexual experience and intimacy, You may add these ones in your list.

1. The Magic Wand.

 

If you are into adult toys or planning to invest in one, this here is a must-have. It comes in different colors and sizes. Some come in a pocket-size that you can throw in your bag and have a quick one in restrooms or the cinema. (Don't be caught, though, Lol) As a man, you can use this on your spouse's clitoris and watch her gush none stop. 

With your fingers inside, massaging her G-spot, torture her more by placing this bitch on her clit, then watch her scream your name as her body rocks in orgasmic pleasure.

Do you like being naughty sometimes? then grab this on your way out for a function, talk her into following you back to the car, restroom, or any corner, then surprise her by giving her a quick one (I pray she likes playing naughty too.) she will thank you for it.

The wand can equally be used to massage the penis (uuhhhh la laaa...you man is gonna love it) and also can be used as an ordinally back massager.

2. Zalo Fanfan Remote-controlled couples massager.

  This beautiful toy is a double massager designed with couples' mutual enjoyments in mind. The round saucer-like one is the remote, then the sickle-like one is the vibrator. when switched on, the woman slid the thin part of the vibrator inside her vagina while the larger head rests on top of her mound. Then she hands the remote control over to her partner who will navigate through the eight vibration modes and also adjust the speed as it suits the couple. 

This toy is so beautiful in the sense that when the man pushed his penis into the vagina, the vibrations massage the penis too. 

There may not be room for thrusting though.

3. The we-Vibe stimulator.

Guys, the We-Vibe is super amazing! A friend introduced it to me sometime last year, it took me some time to get it because I didn't know what to expect. When we finally used it, wow! just wow!

This babe is perfectly made for couples. just like the Fanfan, the woman wears it in the vagina for extra stimulation to her clitoris and G-spot, then the man fits in underneath, because of the size of this toy, the man can thrust without feeling restricted. His movement creates extra friction to stimulate her G-spot even more, while his penis gets massaged.

4. The Fin Vibrator

 
As the name implies, this toy takes fingering to another level. Just recharge properly, slip two fingers in the rubber and balance around the head like the picture above, then slip into your woman's vagina and watch her writhe in pleasure. 

5. The Cock Ring.

The cock ring is the simplest and most popular toy around. you can buy one over the counter, in a chemist shop. They provide a constricting squeeze on the penis when it's erect, Making your erection feel harder and last longer. when the man finally ejaculates, his orgasm is more intense and body shattering.

But, do not wear the cock for a long time (let's say...more than thirty minutes) without removing it to allow blood flow. 

There are many toys out there for sexual pleasure and enhancement. But I could only talk about these five because I have used them, have to experiment with others before I can strongly recommend them.

Before I sign off, let me bring to you the words of Jenn Sinrich; Sex is one of the most important pieces to the happy marriage puzzle. Good sex and happy marriage doesn't happen naturally, in fact, it happens the other way round. According to Tammy Nelson, a sex therapist and the author of 'Getting the sex you want,' When you work on your erotic life, the companionship issues of a committed relationship take care of themselves. 

So, you have to work constantly to keep the sexual spark alive in your marriage, and one of the best ways to do this is by bringing excitement into your sex lives with sex toys.

They are called toys for a reason. 

Again, please don't force sex toys on your spouse isn't convince to use them, yet. Communication is key, so talk, talk, talk. 

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get a copy and read a heartwarming and hilarious story of the celebrity couple, Lucas and Muyiwa.

Story Blurb

Lucas the handsome, charming, successful movie star has women falling at his feet. He's never been a one-woman man and his marriage to Muyiwa is a mistake he aims to rectify.

Muyiwa, his devoted wife loves the lifestyle and fame that comes with being Mrs. Lucas. But when the heartbreak hits too far, Muyiwa takes a break at Twin Bliss Resort - to mull over things - and decides it's time to live on the edge.

Jealousy and fear tear Lucas apart when the tables are turned. Can he win Muyiwa back and reclaim her heart? Will he realize he still loves her or lives the rest of his life full of regret?

Have yourself a fruitful week ahead.