Rosemary Writes

A woman once asked me, what do you think about couples using sex toys? She said her husband wanted it but she feels it’s sinful and wrong for Christian couples to incorporate that in their sexual lives. My first response to her was that it’s alright to feel that way, especially when sexual enjoyment aids are not what is openly discussed in Christian marriage classes (I have not attended one for some time now so I may not be accurate with this.) Aside from few marriage teachers that chip in the use of massage oils and emphasizes couples investing so much in sexy lingeries, sexual aids are still something most marriage sex teachers shy away from or even frowns at. So, it’s okay for Christian couples to have conflicting reactions towards sexual aids. And permit me to say here that when couples (Like the concerned woman who asked the question) have different reactions towards a particular sexual aid- sex toys, in this case, it will be wrong for one partner to force, manipulate,